I think this post has taken me so long to construct because I didn't know exactly where to begin. The prompt this week was "the others in our communities". I have been trying to work out in my head what exactly "others" mean and which community should I describe? In a sense we are all "others" to someone, whether it is your neighbor (I would be willing to bet my Amish neighbors think I'm an "other") or someone from Somalia.
I think for this post I am going to start small and work my way up. The first community I thought about was my Dickinson Community. Where do I feel like an "other" and who do I think are the "others". For starters the Greek community is quite prevalent right now with their new sorority pledge classes and in some aspects I feel like an "other" to them. I don't have letters outside my door or a t-shirt proclaiming my sorority and to some extent I now feel excluded from my friends. However this being said, this is a superficial reason to feel like an "other". I don't view anyone as an other at Dickinson, I believe each individual has a story and their story is continually being written I have friends that are Muslim, Christian, Jewish, Mexican, African American and even Filipino. I have never looked at them as an other and don't think I ever could.
Moving on from my Dickinson Community would have to be the hometown where I grew up. Good old small town, PA. There is a distinct "us" and "them" feeling because I've grown up in farm country where Amish and Mennonite are plentiful. Their lack of modern amenities certainly has made understanding their life very difficult. They are quite cut off from the rest of the world and their lack of knowledge about global affairs does not bother them one bit. Their priorities are God (religion), family/friends, and a supporting income. I struggle to see how this is so different in from our lives, granted not all of us are religious and our priorities might be in different order but for generalization purposes our life ideals are similar. Why does having a cell phone and the internet make us so different, why do I look at the Amish in such a weird manor? (It's probably because I don't drive around in a horse and buggy...)

It's now time to go big or go home and think globally. I realized in my last paragraph the group I talked about (the Amish) are a religious group, some might even consider a cult or sect. As I was thinking about who I see as "the others" are on a global scale, it dawned on me that they are primarily religious groups. Why does religion make me think someone is different on a grand scale but on a personal level I see no differentiation. Throughout the world I see so many different groups and classify them as "the others": Muslims, Coptic Christians, Buddhist Monks and even members of the Catholic Church. I am in no way saying I think these people are weird, or different, or even that I don't accept them, because I certainly do. But when I think about the others in my community (especially on a global scale) that is who I think of.


I can't comprehend why I think religion makes us different and hopefully as I continue to grow up that understanding will become clear and something I can even strive to overcome.